Us, Discord And Relating

Our real enemy is always ourselves. We betray ourselves every time we offer ropes to possible disagreements, or duels based on constant fights and discord, this being so often masked by the false mask of friendship.

But what’s behind it? Besides true feelings? Feelings of truth can cover up endless mistakes in closer relationships. What is there in the other, which sometimes, in existing conflicts, ends up causing us such a feeling of discomfort, generating disagreements in relationships?

When are the acceptable limits extrapolated for a coexistence that could be harmonious? When we get full of fingers and treading on eggs, which are anything but crunchy? Difficulty is in changing the reasons for disagreements in ourselves.

Something happens when you are not heard and even less understood in a right and fair way. When the question of survival of your well-being is noxiously and notoriously shaken.

And then I’m wondering: Are we that ugly on the inside?  I have reason to believe not, even though we all have shortcomings that could be perfectly tolerated. What nonsense, we always think we’re right, isn’t that so with you? That’s how it happens to me.

This truth is not always tied to real facts. We can indeed be wrong and also being harmful with the universe parallel to ours. Let’s leave the arrogance aside, to make room for the true reality in question.

We know that when our egos are dueling, it doesn’t really matter who is right or who is wrong. The big question is that we are fighting, and now it doesn’t matter the real reason that ended up starting the conflict in which we are trapped, and we may have the certainty within us that we want it to end immediately.

But why don’t we just shut up?

Why don’t we let each other have some reason in this endless and tiresome fight?

Wise are those who know how to shut up at the right moment, who do not let the other person continue arguing effusively for the sake of our sensitive organ endowed with sensitivity: our ear.

We know that when our senses start to become sensitive and when our body literally starts to ache, signaling that something is not going well, it is time to stop immediately with the predominant factor of the error in question.

let us preserve ourselves

It’s really sad to feed our day with something that makes us feel so sick. We are our eternal partners, and we will take with us everything that we have kept here, deep inside us.

Sometimes we just need to be comforted with our understanding, so God will rest his tender hands on our face, making us believe that we are important to us and to Him.

That life is a school, and that we are enrolled in it. That we must give peace a truce, when it becomes necessary. And that we fail sometimes doesn’t mean we can’t learn more carefully and smarter in the coming year.

That so many things are important, but most important of all is what we carry inside our heart.  And that this will get us where we’re going in the future.

Life will always be teaching us, it is enough that for this we become humble through the situations that open up for us in the great scenario of life. May we be good teachers for ourselves, never doubting our innate abilities, which will end up putting order in the issues that arise on this fertile road from the time that has died out of our meanings.

The complicated issues that will possibly arise in the unveiling of the experimentation stage, possibly and permanently, will be arising, but it is necessary, with each new experience, that we always mature a little more, being able to advance a step in the grand scale of this promising school.

May the help we need come whenever we are able to listen with humility, the lessons that come together from this great teacher who is the other. I pray for protection for you and yours, and that you will never forget that the path must be carefully walked by you, and that life is a great school.

We need to move forward whenever clashes become upsetting. Let us do this for ourselves and for others, so that we can be generators of energy that will contribute to this world always moving forward. Let us know that our attitudes are not vain;  they go through the sifting of experiments that will be reflected in new hopes, and may in the future contribute to the rise of flights that will make humanity evolve more and more.

Nothing we do will stand still in time:  everything evolves, everything contributes to the world moving its phalanges. Let’s do this so that good can spread, radiating to the universe seeds that will sprout a new world of peace and truth, which will make everything progress. Let’s be lucky, let’s be the vivid forms of true love, which comes from relating with the necessary wisdom, so that everything we do is prodigious.

Let’s be the living and translucent love, never forgetting that the great victory is being able to conquer oneself. And for that, it’s enough for us to continue towards the embarkation of this deep and lucid ship, which is us.

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